https://www.cambridgesu.co.uk/news/womenscampaign/https://www.cambridgesu.co.uk/news/article/womenscampaign/Attraction-to-the-emotionally-stunted-man-constructing-a-fantasy/https://www.cambridgesu.co.uk/news/article/womenscampaign/Attraction-to-the-emotionally-stunted-man-constructing-a-fantasy/<img src="https://www.cambridgesu.co.uk/asset/News/6116/Screen-Shot-2023-12-08-at-19.04.48.png?thumbnail_width=200&thumbnail_height=160&resize_type=Force" alt="" style="float: left;width:200px height:160px;" />Fantasies are not apolitical. Whilst not all aspects of fantasies are translated into real-life relationships, fantasies are an important facet of our understanding and expectations of romance. We all deserve healthy emotional romance, and so we must be self-aware in the way we fantasize.Fri, 08 Dec 2023 19:12:30 Z2023-12-08T19:12:30Zhttps://www.cambridgesu.co.uk/news/article/womenscampaign/Some-reflections-on-the-male-gaze/https://www.cambridgesu.co.uk/news/article/womenscampaign/Some-reflections-on-the-male-gaze/<img src="https://www.cambridgesu.co.uk/asset/News/6116/Screen-Shot-2023-12-08-at-19.13.14.png?thumbnail_width=200&thumbnail_height=160&resize_type=ResizeFitAllFill" alt="" style="float: left;width:200px height:160px;" />No, I am not a sight, I am a presence. I am a presence that is seen on occasion but, most of the time, is felt. And the person who feels it the most is me. So, I hope this mindset will help me ignore the surveyor even when he continues to survey. I can give up on trying to expand my field of vision to include myself.Fri, 08 Dec 2023 19:20:29 Z2023-12-08T19:20:29Z